ElderCarelink Blog

Male caregiver’s ranks boosted by well spouses

by Carol Bursack
August 25th, 2011 at 9:00 am

Books have been written, articles published and columns run in newspapers with statistics that show women are the ones who step up to the plate as caregivers. While the numbers of female caregivers still outrank male caregivers, I would guess that the caregiver gender divide is much less marked when it comes to well spouses.

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Nobody talks about toileting

by Judy Kirkwood
August 24th, 2011 at 9:00 am

When I asked my sister what was the hardest part of taking care of mom and dad, she promptly said “toileting.”

Caregivers don’t often complain. And, if they complain, it’s even less often that they focus on the obvious–the elimination of food and fluids from our bodies that happens a number of times on a daily basis. In fact, the whole subject is kind of taboo, as if it doesn’t exist. Which when you are taking care of an elderly or disabled person who can’t toilet themselves, you kind of wish it didn’t.

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What day is it? Keeping elders oriented

by Kathryn Kilpatrick, M.A. CCC/SLP
August 23rd, 2011 at 9:00 am

Older adults frequently get annoyed when asked the typical questions for orientation by healthcare professionals, but it can be very significant when the person is providing a month when it usually snows in their area and the temperature outside is in the 80’s. Staying oriented to the time, date and year is important. When an elder doesn’t know that information–even when prompted with hints–further observation is warranted to ensure other aging-related issues aren’t coming to the surface.

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Dementia and dealing with a death in the family

by Judy Kirkwood
August 11th, 2011 at 9:00 am

Should we have taken mom to her brother’s memorial service? We felt we had to, but knew it might be problematic given her time traveling dementia between the present and past, not to mention the physical logistics of travel itself.

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Aging population faces shortage of social workers

by Carol Bursack
August 10th, 2011 at 9:20 am

Social workers aided me on several levels while I was caring for multiple elders. Their expertise and care was invaluable as I navigated complicated forms and had to make tough decisions for my elders.  Because of my experiences with social workers, a recent article from The Huffington Post revealed startling news: there are not enough social workers to deal with our ever growing and aging population.

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